PossumPie wrote:Aamartin wrote:Well, I am just going to come right out and say it... With NO offense meant towards anyone. I DO respect every persons opinion and do read them with an open mind...
But I do feel that a person's political, religious and social background do form how they feel about Lizzie and the crimes. It's fascinating.
Just like a jury and jury selection.............................
Great observation. No matter how we try to be objective, we see the world through the filter's of our beliefs. I started a thread a while back about that, and found out That I was wrong in thinking that the "conservative" members here believed her to be guilty, and the "Liberal" members believed in her innocence. You for one are an exception, as are many others. I do think that when presented with vague evidence, we all use our experiences to interpret it. If someone was molested as a child, they may feel strongly that Lizzie may have been also...there is no strong evidence to that effect, but some circumstantial things. If we have been abused emotionally in our past by someone close, we may believe Mr. Borden was a cold emotionally abusive father. I grew up in a family where money was a focus. Perhaps that is why I think it was all about her inheritance. As long as we see what colors our interpretation, we can be open to others points of view.
I so desperately wanted her to be innocent for so many years it clouded my entire judgement of the case, the testimony, the evidence, etc. It took me a long time to admit to myself she is more than likely guilty.....
That said, I think about that situation in Texas. A man killed another who was molesting a 5 year old. And here I am, anti death penalty and I would like to take him out to dinner and agree that no charges should have been filed against him. Such contrasts. Each case is different-- each situation different.
While I do believe psychological profiling does aid in the capture of criminals, I do NOT necessarily agree that a consensus of a Lizzie profile could be accurate without knowing her true sexuality. I think a lesbian woman would profile differently from a straight one. I do suspect Lizzie was indeed, gay. I have no evidence-- but it's one of those instinctual things. Maybe my gaydar transcends the test of time!
I was raised in what best can be described as a progressive household. Both of my parents tended to take on causes and stand by their beliefs. I was seldom spanked-- but remember clearly being spanked by my father when I was not even is school, so less than 5 for using the 'N' word. He would outright fire employees who showed even a slight tendency towards prejudice or racism. In the 70's when an African American family moved into one of his rental properties the neighbors freaked. One man especially. In what I can say is the single really 'mean' thing my dad ever did was buy that man's property out from under him at a tax sale and evict him.
When my mother was a Brownie Leader she wanted to teach her troop the proper way to dispose of (burn) a flag-- and calamity ensued. She got her way and they did learn. She was on the library board and when a man who was known for being very conservative wanted the Judy Blume books banned-- she went after him with a vengeance.
Mom came from money, my father was entirely self made. Very good people.
So I was raised to give 54576435th chances and try to be empathetic. To be kind and to realize that when one has many blessings, he also has many responsibilities associated with that....
It affects how I look at everything!