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This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 12:48 pm
by RGJ
(edit as per mbb) .....I had searched all over here and the internet first to see if anyone had connected these two names, but hadn't found anything, perhaps because one document is apparently only out there as a .pdf image file. Therefore it doesn't show up in web searches, so it is a matter of playing "concentration" while stumbling around the documents. Thank you very much.
(edit)
...I couldn't find a suspect in the right age bracket, though. It occurred to me that the "pale-faced man" could have been an illegal not showing up in records, or a scout for the family.
(edit) letter did provide an immediate suspect for the pale-faced man, with a dotted-line connection to Morse and the horse deal. So maybe this is the rare case where we could actually unearth a new suspect with a name?
Eager for feedback. Peace Out.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 2:59 pm
by mbhenty
Let me give you a little bit of advise, Mr. rgj.
I may not run this forum, but I am sitting at the administrator's computer, and one finger away from pressing the key and removing you from this assembly. If you don't believe it. Try me. If you persist and continue to name call, insult, and ridicule anyone, including myself, you will be banned from this site.
It is apparent you are without control, even after I offered you the benefit of doubt and was good enough to remove any derogatory slander or mockery of you from this forum. It is apparent you have no understanding of my action or respect for it.
Excessive rudeness and smutty coarse behavior will not be tolerated.
Since I left this forum almost a year ago I have been monitoring it and it has been running smoothly with excellent exchanges of ideas and pleasant talk, along with a wealth of new members . That is why I returned.
And believe me my porn surfing friend, if it comes to me or you, you are gone.
My suggestion to those on this forum is that if you feel uncomfortable by Mr. rgj, his manner of speech, and admission to Porn sites, do not reply to his posts. For I am afraid that Mr. rgj will not be able to control himself and his days may be numbered.
There's enough ugliness in the world. We don't need any of it here.
Take it to some other forum and get "excited" somewhere else.
MBhenty
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 3:27 pm
by RGJ
mbhenty wrote:
Let me give you a little bit of advise, Mr. rgj.
I may not run this forum, but I am sitting at the administrator's computer, and one finger away from pressing the key and removing you from this assembly. If you don't believe it. Try me. If you persist and continue to name call, insult, and ridicule anyone, including myself, you will be banned from this site.
It is apparent you are without control, even after I offered you the benefit of doubt and was good enough to remove any derogatory slander or mockery of you from this forum. It is apparent you have no understanding of my action or respect for it.
Excessive rudeness and smutty coarse behavior will not be tolerated.
Since I left this forum almost a year ago I have been monitoring it and it has been running smoothly with excellent exchanges of ideas and pleasant talk, along with a wealth of new members . That is why I returned.
And believe me my porn surfing friend, if it comes to me or you, you are gone.
My suggestion to those on this forum is that if you feel uncomfortable by Mr. rgj, his manner of speech, and admission to Porn sites, do not reply to his posts. For I am afraid that Mr. rgj will not be able to control himself and his days may be numbered.
There's enough ugliness in the world. We don't need any of it here.
Take it to some other forum and get "excited" somewhere else.
MBhenty
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 3:44 pm
by RGJ
Okay, sorry mbb. Let me know what you find offensive and I will edit it. The porn reference was, of course, in jest.
Moving on...on page 2 of the Phillips letter he
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 4:16 pm
by taosjohn
mbhenty wrote:
There's enough ugliness in the world. We don't need any of it here.
Take it to some other forum and get "excited" somewhere else.
MBhenty
Oh, he does, he does...

Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 4:43 pm
by taosjohn
RGJ, you might have done better to bring this up at the start; I have the impression that many here were aware of the Larcombe misspelling already and could have advised you of it before you got too deeply invested in the other possibility.
Not that I am sure that the presumably verbal identification of the pale faced guy as resembling "Lacombe" might not as easily have been spelled Larcombe or La Comb or any variant thereof...the pronunciation might have been without detectable distinction... spelling too for that matter.
FWIW I think you have an entirely unrealistic trust in the veracity of newspaper reporting of the time too. We grew up in that sort of responsible period between Lindbergh and OJ that Bill writes about. Before and since there was and is a much higher ratio of fiction, inadvertent and fiction, intentional to fact than was common in our formative years.
As Steve Earle says, "don't believe everything you read in the newspapers, especially nowadays, 'cause they ain't looking out for ya like they used to."
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 5:03 pm
by RGJ
taosjohn wrote:Not that I am sure that the presumably verbal identification of the pale faced guy ...the pronunciation might have been without detectable distinction... spelling too for that matter.
Well...this conversation doesn't make sense perhaps to the readers now that it has been edited. But that name showing up in two places seem to be pushing the bounds of coincidence. They do come from the same root, and I've even seen census records where the names mutate right in a generation.
FWIW I think you have an entirely unrealistic trust in the veracity of newspaper reporting of the time too. We grew up in that sort of responsible period between Lindbergh and OJ that Bill writes about. Before and since there was and is a much higher ratio of fiction, inadvertent and fiction, intentional to fact than was common in our formative years.
Well, that probably is a valid criticism, but here I am dealing with two straight up documents -- the 1939 letter, and the will probated in 1926. No media (yet :-) )
I've seen three in Fall River identified as "coachman" and "livery" the sort of job the guy they braced for the murder was from. ...so, trying to find more there. I'll PM you some stuff, TJ.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 5:17 pm
by taosjohn
RGJ wrote:taosjohn wrote:Not that I am sure that the presumably verbal identification of the pale faced guy ...the pronunciation might have been without detectable distinction... spelling too for that matter.
Well...this conversation doesn't make sense perhaps to the readers now that it has been edited. But that name showing up in two places seem to be pushing the bounds of coincidence. They do come from the same root, and I've even seen census records where the names mutate right in a generation.
FWIW I think you have an entirely unrealistic trust in the veracity of newspaper reporting of the time too. We grew up in that sort of responsible period between Lindbergh and OJ that Bill writes about. Before and since there was and is a much higher ratio of fiction, inadvertent and fiction, intentional to fact than was common in our formative years.
Well, that probably is a valid criticism, but here I am dealing with two straight up documents -- the 1939 letter, and the will probated in 1926. No media (yet :-) )
I've seen three in Fall River identified as "coachman" and "livery" the sort of job the guy they braced for the murder was from. ...so, trying to find more there. I'll PM you some stuff, TJ.
Heck, I've seen 'em mutate from week to week-- 'Murricans aren't always great spellers. And from our own time, the brothers, Iorg say straight facedly that one pronounces it "Erg" and the other "Orj." (Baseball players for the uninitiate.)
The newspaper comment was referent to the debate over the provenance of the Barn Hatchet.
And yeah, I noticed the same Lacombes; but it is quite possible that the guy you are after was itinerant or from Bedford or between Bedford and FR, or somewhere else close by, and so not counted in the FR censuses at all. Or that his name was misheard and was Macomb or Newcombe or his first name was Joachim or...
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 6:12 pm
by RGJ
Heck, I've seen 'em mutate from week to week-- 'Murricans aren't always great spellers. And from our own time, the brothers, Iorg say straight facedly that one pronounces it "Erg" and the other "Orj." (Baseball players for the uninitiate.)
lol...I'm pretty sure Tomato Face Cullop's teammates just couldn't pronounce his real name. :-)
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Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 6:23 pm
by Curryong
I'm sticking strictly to facts here. Mark Chase was a stable hand at Hall's stable over the road from the Borden house. He was very tall and a former policeman. He was several times that Thursday morning between Wade's Store Second St and Hall's stables.
Chase at first told the police he saw nothing unusual. Later he said he saw a man eating pears from the pear tree lining the Borden front fence. He said in his witness statement that he saw a man in an open box buggy near the tree at the Borden property at between 10 and 5 to 11 am. The man was wearing a black hat and a brown coat but he couldn't see his full face and so couldn't see whether he was a stranger or not.
I thought it was Dr Handy who saw the pale faced stranger, though he later back pedalled on the importance of this.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 6:32 pm
by Curryong
Your suspect was in his mid-40's when the U.S. entered WW1. Surely they wouldn't have been drafting men of that age? In Britain they began with late teens, early twenties, then late twenties, then thirties and so on with married men next.
Liverymen weren't 'beef salesmen'. He may have been delivering meat around town to customers for Wardell's. That's an old term for the men who transported goods for their employers.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 6:48 pm
by RGJ
Curryong wrote:Your suspect was in his mid-40's when the U.S. entered WW1. Surely they wouldn't have been drafting men of that age? In Britain they began with late teens, early twenties, then late twenties, then thirties and so on with married men next.
What I have is a draft registration card in a .pfd. I'll PM it to you if you can attach PMs?
I'll try to embed it here, but I think it might need my membership at this site:
Liverymen weren't 'beef salesmen'. He may have been delivering meat around town to customers for Wardell's. That's an old term for the men who transported goods for their employers.
I stand corrected. The term was "coachman," which sounds like the stable guy in 1892, right? I'm not sure why liveryman stuck in my brain.
Beef salesman is the job listed on the draft registration form, which was 20-25 years later.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 7:04 pm
by Curryong
I've just looked it up. There were three registrations in the US between 1917-18. The first two concentrated on 18 to 31 year olds, the third, in September 1918 picked up 18 to 45 year olds so he would have just scraped in. Luckily for him the war ended in the November, so, as he was on the very edge of the age limit and they would have taken the youngest first, he probably didn't even get to train, lucky man!
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 7:07 pm
by RGJ
Curryong wrote:I'm sticking strictly to facts here. Mark Chase was a stable hand at Hall's stable over the road from the Borden house. He was very tall and a former policeman. He was several times that Thursday morning between Wade's Store Second St and Hall's stables. Chase at first told the police he saw nothing unusual. Later he said he saw a man eating pears from the pear tree lining the Borden front fence. He said in his witness statement that he saw a man in an open box buggy near the tree at the Borden property at between 10 and 5 to 11 am. The man was wearing a black hat and a brown coat but he couldn't see his full face and so couldn't see whether he was a stranger or not. I thought it was Dr Handy who saw the pale faced stranger, though he later back pedalled on the importance of this.
Do you think maybe the pears were an inside joke for future generations? I'm surprised nobody reported Abby jumping up from the autopsy for a few quick pears.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 7:30 pm
by RGJ
Curryong wrote:I've just looked it up. There were three registrations in the US between 1917-18. The first two concentrated on 18 to 31 year olds, the third, in September 1918 picked up 18 to 45 year olds so he would have just scraped in. Luckily for him the war ended in the November, so, as he was on the very edge of the age limit and they would have taken the youngest first, he probably didn't even get to train, lucky man!
Okay, I just started to pumpo all this other stuff in here, but I just realized I was bizarrely threatened with a lockout a few hours ago. So I'm not going to keep putting this stuff up and lose access to the discussion. Curry and taos, can you PM me and I will send you links?
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 7:35 pm
by Curryong
by Kat » Thu May 19, 2005 12:01 pm
Dr. Handy's Wild-Eyed Man was really Dr. Handy's Pale-Faced Man. The newspapers changed his description!
Here is some info as him as suspect.
Also, we read that Hyde said he saw the loitering man, but I don't think I ever saw Hyde's statement to this? Anyone know where it is located?
Please consider all of the below in quotes.
Dr. Handy — Rebello, pg. 65, 251: Boston Daily Globe, Thursday, June 15, 1893: 1 : "Dr. B. J. Handy Testifies About A Pallid-Faced Man." Also, W.S., pg. 14-15, Harrington, Wed., Aug. 10, notes, that when the police took Dr. Handy to Boston to I.D. a man, he was not at home. Dr. Handy was shown a photo of the man he said he had seen that day (Aug. 4th), Henrick Wood.
. . . Dr. Handy so readily pronounced him not the man, is, to my mind, very significant. His social relations with Miss Lizzie are very close. She was to spend her vacation at Dr. Handy's cottage at Marion, with his daughter . . .
Also, W.S. pg. 19, Harrington, Sept. 25, notes, Dr. Handy explains,
Now Mr. Harrington, I never told you I thought the man I saw committed the crime, did I? I never said the man I saw committed the crime, and don't think he did.
Also, W.S., pg. 19, Harrington, Sept. 25, notes,
James E. Cunneen . . . Drove up Second street that day, and the only strange thing I observed was Dr. Handy's actions. His carriage was drawn up to the west side of the street, about opposite Dr. Kelly's yard. He sat in the buggy, and was quickly turning his head from right to left, and left to right. He seemed very nervous, and his strange actions caused me to look around to see what was the occasion of this; but I observed nothing. Before I reached where he was standing, he started and drove slowly down the street by me. [see Henrick Wood].
A Man, Wild-eyed — W.S., pg. 14, 15, 19. Also, Rebello, pg. 251 (really 'pallid-faced'), pg. 132: Fall River Daily Herald, Tues., Jan. 10, 1893: 8: "Mike the Soldier / The Man of Mystery Located At Last / Months of Active Search / Rewarded By a Chance Discovery / The Individual Whom Dr. Handy Claimed to Have Seen on Second Street." Also pg. 115: New Bedford Evening Standard, Tues., June 6, 1893: 5 : " An Old Story Revived / Rumored: Revival of the Tale of the Wild-Eyed Man / One Way of Looking At It." Also, Porter, pg. 50-1:
Dr. Handy's statement was that at some time within fifteen minutes of 10:30 o'clock that morning he was driving down Second street. When he was passing the residence of Dr. Kelly, -which is the next house south of the Borden premises,-his attention was attracted to a pedestrian walking slowly along the sidewalk near the Borden house . . . he looked twice at the passerby, and even turned in his carriage to inspect him more closely . . . There was a peculiarity about the man . . . The individual was about 30 years of age, five feet five inches in height, weight perhaps about 125 or 130 pounds. His clothes were of light gray of just what cut and texture the doctor could not positively state; nor could he tell whether the man's hat was of felt or straw . . . He was pale, almost white; not with the ghastly pallor of a sick man, but rather the whitish appearance of a man whose face had not been touched by the sun's rays; who might have been in confinement, or whose work was of such a nature as to keep him constantly in a cellar . . . he appeared to be in a state of intense nervousness . . . Column after column of the leading newspapers were devoted to the discussion of the stranger until he became known as 'Dr. Handy's Wild Eyed Man' . . . There was a man known to the police as 'Mike the Soldier' and he in a measure seemed to fit the description of the 'Wild Eyed.'
Also, Ashton, Proceedings, pg. 216, Jenning's notes,
c. Handy Dr. His strange looking man 'I was up St. (street) bet 10:20 and 10:40 perhaps after as near as I can guess I know Tom Boles well for years. Dr. Bowen said his driver says he called his attention to a strange man--the man struck me as very singular he was moving between D. Kelly's and Wade's store. There's a detective on his track Furlong, conductor Should say he had a small mustache. I told that night and Frank Trafton (?) said the police are looking for this very man—Dress, suit all of one color common short coat. I should say he was pretty well dressed. Can't say about hat, think it was straw.' [See Nephews][See Mike the Soldier].
http://www.lizzieandrewborden.com/Crime ... tPart2.htm
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Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 7:43 pm
by taosjohn
Curryong wrote: Later he said he saw a man eating pears from the pear tree lining the Borden front fence.
Wait a second! There were pear trees lining the
front fence at the time?

Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 7:47 pm
by taosjohn
RGJ wrote:Curryong wrote:Curry and taos, can you PM me and I will send you links?
Not altogether comfortable with this request?
Can you not post it publicly and just try to hold on to the notion that the standards of polity here are higher than you are used to?

Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 7:52 pm
by Curryong
: WITNESSES FOR THE DEFENSE
Postby Harry » Wed May 04, 2011 3:04 pm
More from the pages of the FR Herald of August 11th. This on "Mike the soldier":
"... He was Michael Graham, better known as "Mike, the soldier," a weaver employed in Border City mill No. 2, and for some days previous to last Thursday he had been drinking freely. The officers learned that Graham was in the vicinity of the Borden house just before 10 o'clock on the morning of the murder and that his physical condition, as a result of his excesses, was such as to render his countenance almost ghastly in its color. He reached the mill where he is employed shortly after 10 o'clock and his condition was at once apparent, and the men in charge there declined to allow him to go to work. The officers found the saloons in which Graham spent Wednesday night and learned there that he drank immoderately, and was feeling badly as a result. The description of Graham corresponded in every particular with that given by Officer Hyde, who furnished more details as to the clothing of the man than could be advanced by Dr. Handy. His trousers were of a peculiar texture and hue, and were rendered extremely noticeable on this account. This in itself was believed to be sufficient identification, but in all other particulars there was an unmistaken similarity, and the authorities arrived at once at the conclusion that the man was identical with the person described by Dr. Handy and the police officer. The explosion of this theory afforded much satisfaction to the authorities."
The incident was looked into by the odd combination of Detective McHenry and Officer Medley
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 8:06 pm
by Curryong
By the way Bestcombe Chase and his wife were family friends of Abby's and her family. It was Mrs Chase who told the police about Abby's comment to her about having to buy lace curtains and other things from her allowance while the girls spent theirs on whatever they wanted. She also said she would tell her about the daylight robbery sometime, but never got round to it.
There is an old photo I'm trying to locate which shows a pear tree at the front of the Borden house. As far as I know there was only the one tree there.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 8:10 pm
by BOBO
Jesus wept. This is why I left.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 8:17 pm
by Curryong
BOBO, you haven't left us. We know you are still with us as you are reading our posts. I refuse to believe you have left for good, and you will still come back to visit and post!
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 8:38 pm
by RGJ
Curryong wrote:: WITNESSES FOR THE DEFENSE
Postby Harry » Wed May 04, 2011 3:04 pm
More from the pages of the FR Herald of August 11th. This on "Mike the soldier":
"... He was Michael Graham, better known as "Mike, the soldier," a weaver employed in Border City mill No. 2, and for some days previous to last Thursday he had been drinking freely. The officers learned that Graham was in the vicinity of the Borden house just before 10 o'clock on the morning of the murder and that his physical condition, as a result of his excesses, was such as to render his countenance almost ghastly in its color. He reached the mill where he is employed shortly after 10 o'clock and his condition was at once apparent, and the men in charge there declined to allow him to go to work. The officers found the saloons in which Graham spent Wednesday night and learned there that he drank immoderately, and was feeling badly as a result. The description of Graham corresponded in every particular with that given by Officer Hyde, who furnished more details as to the clothing of the man than could be advanced by Dr. Handy. His trousers were of a peculiar texture and hue, and were rendered extremely noticeable on this account. This in itself was believed to be sufficient identification, but in all other particulars there was an unmistaken similarity, and the authorities arrived at once at the conclusion that the man was identical with the person described by Dr. Handy and the police officer. The explosion of this theory afforded much satisfaction to the authorities."
The incident was looked into by the odd combination of Detective McHenry and Officer Medley
Masterson dismisses this with two sentences that the cops dragged in a local bum who looked nothing like Dr. Handy's pale-faced man so they could dismiss the issue and get back to prosecuting Lizzie:
SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT The police , believing Lizzie to be guilty, never took seriously the "mysterious stranger " she talked about. Dr. Handy's "wild-eyed man, as he was referred to by the press, was another matter altogether. Anyone who could make such a profound impression on a trained observer such as a physician has to be taken seriously. The police searched for him but were never able to find anyone who came close to fitting Handy's description.
and
Dr. Handy's pale -faced man was never identified. The best the police could come up with was a derelict called "Mike the Soldier" who was recovering from an alcoholic binge somewhere on Second Street that morning. He didn't remotely resemble the man Handy described. Masterton, William (2010-11-07). Lizzie Didn’t Do It!, (p. 215). Branden Books. Kindle Edition.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 8:50 pm
by Curryong
The Borden house rear and front. The pear tree at the front is not lining the fence but in full foliage, overhangs it.
http://lizzieandrewborden.com/portfolio/images
Just put Masterson, who you place a great deal of faith in aside for a minute, and go to the witness statements of Dr Handy's, which the police took seriously and certainly followed up, and you will see that a very different picture emerges of Dr Handy, and his certainties about what he saw and his demeanour when dealing with the police after the murder.
Of course Masterson dismisses him. He's writing a book saying Lizzie didn't do it! And yes, I have read the book.
Dr Handy himself was seen in his buggy in Second St that morning by one witness, twisting and looking around in what the witness described as a strange manner. He might as well be accused of the deed!
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 9:07 pm
by RGJ
taosjohn wrote:RGJ wrote:Curryong wrote:Curry and taos, can you PM me and I will send you links?
Not altogether comfortable with this request?
Can you not post it publicly and just try to hold on to the notion that the standards of polity here are higher than you are used to?

Polity? I made one passing joke in a thousand word post. Now I'm getting cane beaten over the head by some old wobbly who is toddling around showing me his internet biceps. Your classic non-face-to-face internet issue.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 9:17 pm
by Aamartin
we are very protective of the forum and one another. And although it probably isn't exactly fair-- one really needs to earn respect and credibility here. within the past year we have had long time members leave due to their perceived unkind behavior and rudeness on the forum. I personally, agreed with some and not others in their assessments of what was inappropriate. Mbh is a long time, well respected member here. He deserves the respect you would accord any old member of a club or organization you joined. Please don't make this worse than it already is. I wasn't able to read your post before it was edited, but I will say I have never seen Mb edit a post in my 10+ years here. So I trust it was appropriate for him to do so.
In my experience, pissing contests only serve to make fools out of those participating in them.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 9:17 pm
by Aamartin
double post, sorry
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 9:28 pm
by RGJ
Curryong wrote:The Borden house rear and front. The pear tree at the front is not lining the fence but in full foliage, overhangs it.
http://lizzieandrewborden.com/portfolio/images
Just put Masterson, who you place a great deal of faith in aside for a minute, and go to the witness statements of Dr Hardy's, which the police took seriously and certainly followed up, and you will see that a very different picture emerges of Dr Hardy, and his certainties about what he saw and his demeanour when dealing with the police after the murder.
Of course Masterson dismisses him. He's writing a book saying Lizzie didn't do it! And yes, I have read the book.
Dr Hardy himself was seen in his buggy in Second St that morning by one witness, twisting and looking around in what the witness described as a strange manner. He might as well be accused of the deed!
I think you mean Handy....I did look at his testimony, and here, by the age old rules of internet discourse, are cherry-picked out-of-context fragments which best serve my theses:
""He was walking very slowly, scarcely moving. He was agitated, or weak, staggering; or confused, or something of the kind. Did not appear intoxicated. Seemed mentally agitated: showed this by intense expression of his face.""
""Have searched for him since; been to the police station to look at various persons; but have never seen the young man since.""
Since the cops produced Mike The Soldier in August '12, and that quote is from the trial in June '13, I think it can be assumed that the doctor wasn't down with Mike The Soldier being his guy.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 9:30 pm
by twinsrwe
Aamartin wrote:we are very protective of the forum and one another. And although it probably isn't exactly fair-- one really needs to earn respect and credibility here. within the past year we have had long time members leave due to their perceived unkind behavior and rudeness on the forum. I personally, agreed with some and not others in their assessments of what was inappropriate. Mbh is a long time, well respected member here. He deserves the respect you would accord any old member of a club or organization you joined. Please don't make this worse than it already is. I wasn't able to read your post before it was edited, but I will say I have never seen Mb edit a post in my 10+ years here. So I trust it was appropriate for him to do so.
In my experience, pissing contests only serve to make fools out of those participating in them.
I agree, Anthony. Mbhenty is one of the most knowledgeable members we have, and he has definitely earned and deserves our respect.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 9:37 pm
by Curryong
Please apologise for calling Mbhenty a name that was completely uncalled for. We all try and be civilised and cordial in our posts even if we disagree, as Aamartin says above.
I just want to debate this fascinating mystery with other posters here. I trust you do too. If you feel you can't restrain yourself, then perhaps another forum on YouTube where you can go for your life and call people all the names under the sun might be more your cup of tea.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 10:23 pm
by taosjohn
[quote="RGJ
Polity? I made one passing joke in a thousand word post. Now I'm getting cane beaten over the head by some old wobbly who is toddling around showing me his internet biceps. Your classic non-face-to-face internet issue.[/quote]
Let me make this abundantly clear to you; I thought mbh's reaction to your post was entirely justified. I find your style casually and needlessly offensive all too often. Injecting politics or pornography into a forum where it is not specifically invited is just poor behavior, period.
I don't know whether you intended "wobbly" as a comment on physique or politics, but it is rude either way, and presumably ignorant to boot. Any posturing in front of mirrors appears to me to be on your part.
We are newcomers here; I think it seemly to talk softly and carry a toothpick, at least until people have some reason to trust me. mbh has a long history here-- I read many of his posts before I ever signed up.
And now you have crowded me into more severity than I really have the stomach for...
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 10:58 pm
by debbiediablo
Aamartin wrote:
In my experience, pissing contests only serve to make fools out of those participating in them.
One of my two favorite bosses in over forty years once said to me, "Debbie, don't ever get into a pissing match with a skunk." He was referencing a school superintendent at the time, but I've never forgotten his words of wisdom because they were, indeed, words of wisdom.
Just saying....

Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 11:00 pm
by mbhenty
My apology to members of this forum for my actions and behavior. Not because I was wrong, not because it was not justified, but because it can be very nerve racking, upsetting, and embarrassing to both me and members.
This started off by someone who showed me disrespect. As Aamartin said, things like this turn into a pissing contest. Pissing contests make fools or all participants. I was not in a pissing contest but trying to get personal name calling to stop. I addressed RJG directly and told him to stop it. I even went that extra step of removing what I had said about RJG later, as not to damage him here on the fourm.
In the end I even made a further attempt to thank him for taking his portion of the post down and I called him a gentlemen. If I am wrong I am always quick to admit it and if I am wrong, apologize. An apology means you will not do it again.
To my consolatory attempts, he comes back and calls me a KILLJOY and a DICK, for which he since removed.
After this I warned him not to name call. And if he did he would be removed.
He apologized.
Then he came back again, this time calling me a "OLD WOBBLY, WHO Is TODDLING AROUND SHOWING ME HIS INTERNET BICEPS.
You can't disrespect people on here. The internet biceps he speaks of is one we all have on the forum. Once you have multiple complaints against you, you are warned by the administrator not to do it again. If you continue you are banned. It's a democratic procedure that everyone has on here.
I predicted this.
There are some older members here who remember posters who cannot be helped. RjG can not help it.
If he is not banned he will do it over and over. He's a type A personality. He has to struggle to play nice. He will always promise to do so, but never will. He can't help it. RayS couldn't help it. I even PM RayS and nicely told him to lighten up, that I liked his posts and that I thought he was a valuable member. Rays ignored me. He couldn't help himself. I had NOTHING to do with RayS being Banned.
But such behavior makes for a very uncomfortable existence on here and all the fun fades away. It will not be tolerated.
Things on this forum have been running so smooth. The harmony that I have found here with all the new members as been refreshing. That is why a reapplied. That is why I told the Administrator to reinstate me. Conflict is not in my blood, but neither will I lay down and play dead. You can't bully people around. If you do in today's world there will be those who will try and stop you.
When I warned him that I sat at the Administrators computer, I was hinting to him that the founder of this forum is my girlfriend. We live together.
I need to sadly inform everyone that RGJ has been suspended. Whether he is allowed to come back is doubtful.
My apology to those who read my post to rgj and were offended or who were made to feel anxious.
Let us strive not to disrespect other members. At times this does happen and we must do our best to fix it and not do it again. This is a great place to discuss true crime. And on the whole, it has attracted some very intelligent students and scholars. I pray that it is that way once again. And to assure this, I'm afraid that RGJ will not be back.
Thank you,
MichaelB
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 11:25 pm
by twinsrwe
Thank you, Michael. RGJ needed to be suspended. I am also praying that this forum will get back on track and we can once again join in on the interesting and informative discussions we have recently been having.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2014 11:44 pm
by Curryong
Thank you Mb, and we will get back on track, twins. From this moment!
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2014 8:29 am
by Aamartin
I for one don't think he needs to come back. He deliberately crossed the line with the Old Wobbly remark-- which was uncalled for and mean spirited and not even remotely applicable.
Whenever something like this happens, I wonder about the southwestern witch-- and wonder if she is pulling people's strings!
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2014 10:27 am
by taosjohn
Aamartin wrote:I for one don't think he needs to come back. He deliberately crossed the line with the Old Wobbly remark-- which was uncalled for and mean spirited and not even remotely applicable.
He does that sort of thing quite a bit on the other site we have in common.
He seems to do it reflexively/unconsciously, and professes what I take to be a genuine astonishment that anyone takes offense. (He has associated me with "drum circles" and seems to think I am much younger than he is... which doesn't particularly upset me, but does seem peculiar...)
He's run notions like the "internet biceps" one across the other board too, which leads me to speculate that he has been banned or chastised on other sites as well.
Enough.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2014 1:03 pm
by Adminlizzieborden
I have been following the posts in question and agree with mbhenty that this has gone far enough. The members of this forum tried on many occasions to self-advise RGJ to take it easy, cool his jets, and calm down. His blatant disregard for the polite nature of the forum led me to remove him from the forum, if only temporarily. These are legitimate complaints and there have been several members who have contacted me to express their displeasure with this member. Anyone of you can "flex your internet biceps" and let me know when you are uncomfortable with the language or attitude of those you are encountering here. It will always be up to me who comes and goes.
This person isn't the woman who shall not be named, AMartin. That I know.
This person is probably used to saying whatever they want on FaceBook without anyone getting bothered. I see it all the time myself. But this is NOT FaceBook and we are not unkind to one another. That is why this forum has lasted as long as it has. You should always feel safe here. And free to express your opinions without being shouted down or called names.
No politics. No religion. Those are the only real no-nos here. Murder, mayhem, theories, small talk, etc. is always welcome.
Thanks to all who let me know what was going on. I hope we can all resume our discussions now without fear of that kind of behavior.
Cheers,
Stefani
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Thu Dec 04, 2014 8:33 pm
by BOBO
Does declaring yourself an atheist fall under the "no religion" clause? Just asked. I've seen it posted. I know this is your site, but a two person dictatorship should not rule. You can remove me at this time. BOBO
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Thu Dec 04, 2014 10:19 pm
by debbiediablo
That would be no no religion...
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Fri Dec 05, 2014 12:14 am
by mbhenty
When the administrator talks about "religion" or "politics" she is talking about the praising, campaigning, solicitation, or promoting of one's political or religious beliefs. That is to say, if you want to declare yourself an atheist, Catholic, or protestant, republican, or democrat, and make comparisons or parallels to your station in life with historical accounts of Lizzie Borden and her contemporaries, I don't seen anything wrong with that. As long as the discussion does not revolve or linger around the actual politics. or for the sake of individual politics or personal spiritual belief, separate from the historical figures we study here.
Also, a declaration of one's religious standing, one lacking any discussion, is fine.
All one need do is study the Middle East to sort out why we prefer not to talk politics or religion, which is almost impossible to so, without having a heated argument or idealistic quarrel breaking out and getting out of hand. It would be chaos.
I explain this by using all the respect and esteem I can muster for anyone on the forum and their solemn beliefs, but this is a forum about a murder case. No religious or political talk is one of the rules of using this forum, and a reasonable one. In the past It has been my experience that those mostly insulted by the talk of religion have been atheist. And I don't blame them. They are here to discuss and study a murder case, not Jesus or Obama.
Forgive me, but please allow me to clear this up. There is no "two person dictatorship" here. This forum is not a dictatorship, or at least I never felt like I had joined one. One of the reasons why this forum has been around for almost 12 years is due to the hundreds who have joined and have played by some simple rules. No religious talk. No political talk. And respect and politeness for those you are talking to or about. Easy stuff.
I have apologized to everyone here on the forum for the tensions that were caused by one of the members here, and for my part in it. And I really meant it. As unpleasant as it may have been for some, it was very diminishing to me, also. I know. I have also engaged in such behavior myself.
I am sorry if you have felt that you must express the fact that you should be removed, especially since you have worded it in the way of a challenge. I see no reason why you should say that, or have read any reason why the LAB forum would want to. From what I have read you have been a good member. I have little understanding for the way you feel, now.
It's Perplexing to me to say the least?
But there is no "two person dictatorship" on this forum. And to put it simply, no one really runs it. It runs itself. Everyone on here runs it. And, I must say it again, that it is not the pure mention of any one religion that matters but the discussion or promotion of it. The same for politics. Did Lizzie Borden have deep religious beliefs or political leanings? Let's talk about it. No problem with that.
Please allow me to make this aware to everyone on here. RGJ was not removed by a 2 person dictatorship. There were a handful of complaints against him. And though I am sitting at the Administrators computer, I have to much respect and regard for her to go tampering with her site without her consent. And she disagrees with me more times than she does. Any actions taken by her are done so with justification. Not through dictatorship. And if anyone thinks that the boy was treated unkindly, you may lobby the Administrator to reinstate him. As mentioned before, this is a democracy, but even democracies have rules.
And before I close let me add that this is not an attack or an assault on anyone on the forum, nor am I belittling, disrespecting, or attacking anyone. Just trying to make the rules plain. Not my rules. But the rules of this forum and its administrator.
I hope everyone understands. And my apology to BoBo if he has been made to feel slighted in anyway.
mbhenty

Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Fri Dec 05, 2014 11:51 am
by Adminlizzieborden
BOBO wrote:Does declaring yourself an atheist fall under the "no religion" clause? Just asked. I've seen it posted. I know this is your site, but a two person dictatorship should not rule. You can remove me at this time. BOBO
Oh, don't be silly. I mean debates about religion. Debates about politics. Unless you are debating Lizzie's possible choices, this is not the forum to post diatribes on your own beliefs in these areas. These are the rules that are listed in the top part of this forum under user rules.
Mbhenty is not in charge here. I don't agree with him all the time, and he went away from this forum for a big while over some discord that was happening back then. People do come and go here. That is to be expected. Some abandon the subject of this crime and the people and the city and move on to other pursuits. Others stay and are fascinated by the disparate views that are expressed here by folks such as yourself.
This forum is meant to be a kind of soirée. A social society that comes together in thoughtful kindness and respect for one another. That is the plan. It doesn't always work out that way, that's for sure.
There is a site on FaceBook right now that I read called Threw Up in Fall River, a take on the group called Grew Up in Fall River. Those people let it all hang out. It is liberating to them to be allowed to curse and rant and hate and attack others less fortunate than themselves. It didn't start out that way, but it has ended up being primarily filled with people who enjoy cussing, cursing, and being mean whenever they feel the spirit moves them. It is a closed group now because people there were actually being brought into court for some of the things they posted.
This forum will NEVER get into those types of activities, and the only way to make sure it doesn't devolve is to nip stuff in the bud. I am not on the forum every day, and so I rely on you, its members, to let me know if a situation is getting out of hand and misbehavior is appearing. You help keep this forum safe and sound. And for that, I sincerely thank you.
So, no BoBo, saying you are an atheist is not what I meant, and I am sure you know that. Pretty funny post, actually. Thanks for asking the question.
Cheers,
Stefani
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Fri Dec 05, 2014 7:26 pm
by BOBO
Adminlizzieborden wrote:BOBO wrote:Does declaring yourself an atheist fall under the "no religion" clause? Just asked. I've seen it posted. I know this is your site, but a two person dictatorship should not rule. You can remove me at this time. BOBO
Oh, don't be silly. I mean debates about religion. Debates about politics. Unless you are debating Lizzie's possible choices, this is not the forum to post diatribes on your own beliefs in these areas. These are the rules that are listed in the top part of this forum under user rules.
Mbhenty is not in charge here. I don't agree with him all the time, and he went away from this forum for a big while over some discord that was happening back then. People do come and go here. That is to be expected. Some abandon the subject of this crime and the people and the city and move on to other pursuits. Others stay and are fascinated by the disparate views that are expressed here by folks such as yourself.
This forum is meant to be a kind of soirée. A social society that comes together in thoughtful kindness and respect for one another. That is the plan. It doesn't always work out that way, that's for sure.
There is a site on FaceBook right now that I read called Threw Up in Fall River, a take on the group called Grew Up in Fall River. Those people let it all hang out. It is liberating to them to be allowed to curse and rant and hate and attack others less fortunate than themselves. It didn't start out that way, but it has ended up being primarily filled with people who enjoy cussing, cursing, and being mean whenever they feel the spirit moves them. It is a closed group now because people there were actually being brought into court for some of the things they posted.
This forum will NEVER get into those types of activities, and the only way to make sure it doesn't devolve is to nip stuff in the bud. I am not on the forum every day, and so I rely on you, its members, to let me know if a situation is getting out of hand and misbehavior is appearing. You help keep this forum safe and sound. And for that, I sincerely thank you.
So, no BoBo, saying you are an atheist is not what I meant, and I am sure you know that. Pretty funny post, actually. Thanks for asking the question.
Cheers,
Stefani
Glad that I could provide a giggle.
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Fri Dec 05, 2014 8:28 pm
by MysteryReader
Well, seeing as what you do for a living, :-D
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Sat Dec 06, 2014 3:40 pm
by irina
My keyboard broke down last Sunday night so I missed all the excitement. Wow!
I too have a lot of questions about the guy eating pears on the fence for instance. Many here have insisted strangers or others should have been seen entering or exiting because the houses are so close together and neighbours watched neighbours, etc. Yet a guy was noted eating pears on the fence but nobody saw him sit upon the fence or leave and nobody knew who he was. I was never satisfied with all that about Dr. Handy's man either and am left with the idea he knew who it was, knew the man was innocent and so did not drag him into the mess.
So I think there was all kinds of stuff happening that day, that the street was busy and someone could have entered and exited 92 Second without being noticed. I also think the way the side steps are arranged a person exiting toward the back fence might be obscured enough that he would not attract attention.
Of more importance to me is Dr. Handy's reported behavior. He was a friend of Lizzie. Did he continue to be her friend after the trial? I have always thought he was involved in something but not murder. What could he have been involved with that could have escalated to murder without planning? Would he have had a need to protect himself at Lizzie's expense? Andrew didn't seem to like Handy. Was there more to it than doctor's fees?
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Sat Dec 06, 2014 9:56 pm
by Curryong
I think for a lot of those questions we would have to be Fall River residents at the time, irina. Andrew's remark seems to imply that Dr Handy was a pushy sort of individual who perhaps called on his patients more than was necessary. We know so little about him really, just that his daughter was Lizzie's friend, that it was at his cottage at Marion the group of friends were staying that summer. Apart from his odd behaviour in Second St that morning, of course. Who knows what caused it though. A personal problem, the pale man, worry about a patient, a pain in his back, the behaviour of another buggy driver, it could have been anything, really.
Dr Benjamin Handy was born in Marion in 1848. After a year in Boston he became a Fall River physician in 1874. He married Susan Holmes from Whitman, Mass.. They had three children, two boys who died young and a daughter Louisa, born in 1876, who was already a school teacher (probably at a junior level) in 1892. Louisa never married and survived her parents. Dr Handy died in 1929, having retired to Marion. (Rebello, Page 65) No information about friendships with Lizzie afterwards, though.
Mrs Susan Handy gave an interview to the Fall River Evening News in August 1892 which is reproduced in Rebello Page 12.
'She said 'I have been a frequent visitor at the Borden home during the last fifteen years and I never saw anybody more kind to Mr and Mrs Borden than Lizzie and Emma.'
'It is outrageous that Lizzie should have been persecuted without any evidence to justify it. No-one personally acquainted with her believes that there is the slightest foundation for the suspicions that have been spread and broadcast.'
She is kindhearted and has done much for the poor. For three winters she did sewing for the needy at home, and she frequently acknowledged Mrs Borden's assistance in the work. She is cultured and her reading has always been the best.
Some have tried to make ado about Lizzie's remarkable composure. That is her chief characteristic and one which would seem rather credible than otherwise.'
Dr Handy did testify about the wild-eyed man at the trial. He also told The Fall River Daily Herald that 'Lizzie was a great fisherman, and when my daughter went to Marion, she with the girls, were going to have fishlines.' (Rebello:Page 14) He also stated elsewhere that Lizzie was the reverse of an hysterical female!
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Sat Dec 06, 2014 10:31 pm
by Aamartin
sitting on the fence? IN every photo I have seen of the house circa 1892, that fence has pickets!
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Sat Dec 06, 2014 10:40 pm
by Curryong
I think it did, Anthony! Maybe he was just gently leaning against it and reaching up towards the tree?
Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Sat Dec 06, 2014 11:36 pm
by debbiediablo
Aamartin wrote:sitting on the fence? IN every photo I have seen of the house circa 1892, that fence has pickets!
Anthony, this kind of observation is exactly what blows a hole in an otherwise plausible theory...no matter how good the Borden pears may have been, I doubt they were worth sitting on a picket fence.

Re: This is what I was excited about
Posted: Sun Dec 07, 2014 2:04 am
by Aamartin
take a good look at those pickets, it would be hard to get a toehold to even climb the fence! it appears to me to be a very well maintained fence with closely spaced pickets.