Catbooks wrote:…
Mrs. Jane Grey, No. 215 Second street. “Dr. Bowen’s character is al least suspicious. Four years
ago, while the Borden family were summering over the river on the farm, Lizzie remained at home. One
Sunday evening during this time, she and Dr. Bowen came to church together, and sat in the Borden
seat. I myself saw them this evening. At the time, and since, there was much comment on this act. Some
remarked how courageous she was to remain in the house alone; but others replied in a knowing way,
perhaps she has very acceptable company.
mrs. grey didn't like lizzie. sorry, mrs. grey, a neighbor who lives directly across the street *one time, four years ago* accompanying their neighbor to church? and then sitting in said neighbor's church pew with the neighbor, this is suspicious? what was he supposed to do, excuse himself and go sit somewhere else?
anyway, it's interesting.
Actually, I’d be very surprised if people DIDN’T talk. Dr. Bowen was a 48 year old, MARRIED, man, attending an EVENING church function, with his 28 year old, UNMARRIED, neighbor, whose entire family was away on the farm in Swansea. That scenario would set some peoples tongues to spreading malicious gossip, even in today’s society.
Not only was Dr. Bowen old enough to be Lizzie’s father, he was a member of the
First Baptist Church in Fall River. So, what was he doing accompanying Lizzie to her Central Congregational Church? Why did he choose to accompany Lizzie to her church, over being with his wife and daughter that evening?
I know Mrs. Grey didn’t like Lizzie, but if in fact Dr. Bowen did accompany Lizzie to church, then I have to agree with her; it is suspicious! If they were in a clandestine relationship, and stupid enough to attend a social event together, then they should have known that people would ‘talk’. I’m not saying that they were having an affair, but their relationship appears to have been more than doctor and patient, or even friendly neighbors for that matter. Even if they were an unmarried couple, their age difference alone would have been considered enough to cause some gossip, especially in the Victorian Era.
I doing some research regarding a totally different subject, when I came across this video – it’s pretty hilarious!
http://sendables.jibjab.com/view/4q52RPa6YS7Uwu82